Wednesday, April 15, 2009

What is the psychology behind wearing the same clothes everyday?

I know a guy who wears the same outfit everyday. He wears the same STYLE of t-shirt, underwear and socks, but his jeans and shoes are the EXACT same pair. He is not poor, dirty, smelly nor does his work require him to dress this way. He showers often and cares about his appearance/fashion as the products/clothing he owns are designer labels.





I once suggested he wear something other than his %26quot;uniform%26quot; to a party we were going and he was highly objective. When shopping, he gets VERY ANGRY %26amp; FRUSTRATED and finds something wrong with everything he tries on--despite him being the perfect size for clothes.





What is all this about? Please explain in detail, I have two Psych degrees and I really want to understand this.

What is the psychology behind wearing the same clothes everyday?
So when he shops for clothes, he really hates all of the clothes that aren%26#039;t just like his clothes.





He is used to the stuff that he wears, and finds anything else upsetting -- because they don%26#039;t feel right, because they change his visual field in an alien and disconcerting way.





Clothes are a second skin -- they cover you, are in contact with a lot of your surface area, and change your visual field (filling a portion of it with their color and pattern). For these reasons, they are kind of a big deal.





I, myself, am sensitive to a LOT of fabrics -- I shop first by touch, as there are a lot of clothes that feel like nettles to me.





A few months ago I stumbled on a documentary on PBS that was a How To for parents of kids who hate anything new. They talked about clothes being one of the problems (the kids throw tantrums when asked to wear new clothes -- but then they resist any new anything).





Seeing this (which I%26#039;ve thought about a lot since) is what made me %26quot;unpack%26quot; that tidbit of information about the shopping and his general resistance as I did.





The main thing I%26#039;d say to you, however, is to leave him alone and stop bugging him about it. (Did you mean to say, when you suggested he change for the party, that he was %26quot;objective%26quot;? What did he say?)





You might try searching for info (or on PBS to see materials related to that show I came in on and don%26#039;t know the name of) on %26quot;the timid child.%26quot;





If I%26#039;m reading your friend right, he%26#039;s one of these. It%26#039;s genetic, some people react with aversion to the new.





All of the above is just guesswork, mind.
Reply:The clothes are his image, he may have some low self-esteem and may have some perfectionist traits.





I wear the exact same pair of jeans or shorts and shoes sometimes depending on my situation the next day but I%26#039;m not stuck on them.
Reply:a) if you have two psych degrees, and you%26#039;re looking for answers HERE, you need to rethink your gameplan.





b) why are you asking US why someone else does what they do? try asking HIM.
Reply:I really feel comfortable in Danskin, and Land%26#039;s End clothing and will buy a couple pairs of pants in different colors.





You suggested he wear something different at a party....were you trying to push his buttons? or just being a friend, and if you were a friend, I would still be a good friend regardless of his clothing style.
Reply:He%26#039;s found a style of clothing he feels comfortable in and thinks he looks good in. Leave him alone or you spend your money and buy him a new wardrobe.
Reply:Maybe he likes his pants and shoes.
Reply:Maybe he feels that by not changing his jeans and shoes, that it%26#039;s something he can say is constant. No matter what comes or goes, his jeans and shoes will always be the same until he dies.





Other than that, I have no idea. No degrees either. Also dido that guy above me, why don%26#039;t you ask him?
Reply:Better than being bollocks!
Reply:If you find something you like, you gotta stick with it. Think about it. He%26#039;s happy enough with these items that he doesent need to change them daily. I think deep down you actually very jealous of this man. He%26#039;s content with his apperance, when you on the other hand have to shop regularly and still havent found the happiness he has. Also, you want him.... :dodgy:
Reply:first all extremely great answer. also what the hell and who the hell is man. this guy must a homeless guy with no money. does he eat.
Reply:Identity, Every human being on the face of this earth searches for that one item, in order to find their niche in this world. Some time that Identity can be associated with a school, some use basket ball shirts, some use base ball shirts, some just use appeal. and many used make-up. all to have their own unique identity. Police use their uniforms. There are many oh so many things that people use to id themselves. All to say I belong...... Why? one reason is because of the way we are educated, others are because the government you live under wants to force separation between the racists in order to prevent the racists from presenting an united front. And believe me they would bomb cities and kill millions in order to prevent that from happening. Some people do it because they simply don%26#039;t wish to change period....................... I have a Ph.D. In The Philosophy Of Psychology. (With Degree in Clinical Psychology Both are Majors)
Reply:Every outfit envokes an emotion.. so whatever emotion this outfit envokes is the emotion this individual probably identifies with the most.
Reply:How do you know he%26#039;s wearing different underwear every day? I%26#039;m not judging, just don%26#039;t think anyone else noticed that...



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Where do you draw the line?

I%26#039;ve stopped eating meat, and consuming milk (directly, i%26#039;ve come to accept the fact that it is virtually impossible to avoid small traces of milk in pre-packaged foods) and eggs (which i avoid in all purchased foods but use rspca approved for my pasta, which is about half a dozen a fortnight). I%26#039;ve turned to Natio so that my body care and makeup are animal cruelty free (except lipsticks which i don%26#039;t wear anyway.





So whats my prob? I need shoes... and i live in rural tasmania, and i%26#039;m financially limited, and i need good shoes for my upcoming trip to Nz, and i can%26#039;t find any non-crappy, non-leather shoes here!





But most of all, i struggle with drawing the line as far as what i use and consume that contains animal products. i%26#039;m limited in my location, and try where i can to avoid them but do i? When am i just making excuses? I want to save these animals from suffering, so should i just buy these crappy shoes and be done with it? Why does the world make it so impossible!!

Where do you draw the line?
Tough question, Jai, but I guess you draw the line at practicality. I don%26#039;t always understand why vegetarians feel compelled to give up milk and eggs, since animals are kept alive---not killed-- to produce those products. However, I grew up on a dairy farm and at that time, everything was %26quot;free range.%26quot; If you avoid them because of the living conditions of the animals, I understand that. In my state, the dairy cattle still roam the pastures and move from the mountains to the valleys in winter and summer. I don%26#039;t know much about chicken farms. We get eggs from a friend and her chickens are totally %26quot;free range.%26quot; I avoid meat, but do have to wear leather belts and boots where I live. (Western U.S. state that still has working cowboys). My logic is that the animals were not killed for their hides. They were killed for their meat and the leather is just a useable py-product. That%26#039;s somewhat of a cop-out, I know, but I live in the state that had the largest cattle drive in history a fews weeks ago and have a lot of rancher friends. If everyone quit wearing leather, the death of cattle would not decrease. These are beef cattle raised for their meat. On the other hand, I would not wear ostrich or alligator boots. These are animals killed primary for their skin (I think). I know some people eat ostrich and perhaps alligators, but that is not common in the U.S. Also, my leather boots last me (and I%26#039;m serious) 20 years of more. I%26#039;m doing less environmental harm by wearing leather than by buying crappy artificial materials that have to be replaced frequently. In life, sometimes we just have to make tough choices out of practicality. To really be environmentally conscious, you would need to know how the artifical shoes were manufactured and how much energy was used to do so; how much pollution resulted--a lot of stuff that would be hard to learn. If you use leather, your inquiries are much more limited. You know the animal was raised and killed, but it wasn%26#039;t killed just to create leather. Anyway, very good question.
Reply:You draw the line where you feel most comfortable drawing it. The transition from vegetarianism into veganism is a fluid concept with no 100%. The baseline is set, but after that we find where we feel most comfortable and most able to succeed. Right now you are making good progress in your vegetarianism. When you feel ready to take the next step, then you take it.





The only people who %26quot;fail%26quot; at veg*anism are those who do too much too fast and they don%26#039;t know how to function.





You may want to take a bit more time to look for non-leather shoes because I can see how uncomfortable it would be to wear animal skin. Or get a pair of leather now and look for non-leather pairs to wear in the future. Until then, you are a vegetarian who owns a pair of leather shoes.


:)





There are honestly a lot of good non-leather shoes out there. I got a pair of vegan Docs about 5 years ago and I am still wearing them. Check out the mooshoes websites; they may have what you want.
Reply:Maybe you could look for some gently used leather shoes from a yard sale, thrift store or friends/neighbors? That way you%26#039;re making use of something that would have gone to waste otherwise.
Reply:The way the world is, it%26#039;s impossible to be completely cruelty free. Do what you can, but if there are shoes that are made better that aren%26#039;t vegan and you have no good alternative, buy the non-vegan shoes. I%26#039;m actually in the same dilemma right now. The only shoes I can find that are completely vegan friendly come from Wal-Mart...and they don%26#039;t look like they%26#039;d make good jogging shoes. Don%26#039;t feel bad if you have to do things that don%26#039;t agree with your way of life, since there really would be no decent alternative anyway. Just be glad you%26#039;re doing all you can which is more than most people can say.
Reply:Hooray!! someone else who won%26#039;t drink milk or eat eggs. I won%26#039;t either. My reason is different than yours though. You see, my dad made my brother %26amp; I clean the cows utters with this smelly antibacterial stuff before he milked them. I couldn%26#039;t stand it. Just the thought of drinking milk after cleaning utters, is utterly (DUH) disgusting. I also had to gather eggs, 200 chicken and clean the coops. But I do applaud you. I wish my husband would be vegatarian, I would rather go without meat. I won%26#039;t by any clothes, shoes, that are made from animals. Many say, %26quot;What%26#039;s the difference, the animal is already dead, why not use all of it?%26quot; There are so many pro%26#039;s %26amp; cons about that. If people stopped eating meat, our planet would be overun with domesticate animals that we farm. I just don%26#039;t like they way they slaughter them. The same for shell fish. I won%26#039;t eat that either, I think there has to be a better way to kill lobster than dropping them in boiling water. I saw my mother do it once because my dad caught a lobster. This was in the 50%26#039;s. We actually heard a terrible sound come from that poor animal. Boy, I sure got off the track, I%26#039;m sorry, If I were you, I would buy the crappy shoes. Bad side of that is, they won%26#039;t last long. Tough choice for you to make.
Reply:The Internet, actually, opens the whole world to you. Shop on-line! When you chose a lifestyle that is a bit out of the norm, it takes a little effort. Good for you, but don%26#039;t get lazy! Just because your lifestyle takes a little more planning and effort doesn%26#039;t mean you should just throw your hands up in despair!
Reply:I don%26#039;t know what to tell you, I guess it depends on how badly you need the shoes? Can you not go on Ebay and find some crappy non leather shoes? From a personal point of view, I would buy the leather shoes. Why? The leather shoes will fit better, and last longer than the non leather, as well as allowing your feet to breathe to help prevent foot odor. I applaud your dedication though.
Reply:what a big question hard to read and answer!



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Have We Become Just A Nation Of Hypocrites In How We Show Our Patriotism ?

With the foreign made cars we drive? The made in China American flags we wave? Or the made in Viet Nam Niki shoes that we wear?





Try this out for irony:





Doesn’t anyone here care that both China and Viet Nam are still communist countries and by buying their products we are helping to keep their form of government alive?





Are you supporting America or are you supporting and feeding the greed of a handful of Americans who are outsourcing our jobs and our future to other countries?





I%26#039;m not an Obama supporter and won%26#039;t vote for him but maybe, just maybe, Obama has a point!

Have We Become Just A Nation Of Hypocrites In How We Show Our Patriotism ?
Don%26#039;t bother, today they call communists taking our manufacturing sector as %26quot;free trade%26quot;. They would rather see more comunist countries to exploit, as long as they don%26#039;t have to live in one.


Just as some people have a problem differentiating between bad policies, and our troops, they likewise have a problem with seeing the difference between%26quot;free exploitation%26quot; and %26quot;free trade%26quot;.





They would like to see Americans making .50 a day, unable to afford what they produce, as long as they don%26#039;t have to live that way, hence their hatred for labor standards, and labor unions.
Reply:(this was actually an answer to the question...%26#039; do you think the fires of hell will be hot enough for Bush An Cheney%26#039;, but it fits here as well!....hypocrisy its best! )


Dude your question says it all!!!


And to those who are still to weak to admit that you are still under the spell of George Bush and Dick Cheney,


its time for all of you to open your eyes!


Buying into the %26#039;terrorism%26#039; fear tactics by these very smart...corruptly smart men, is just proof of how almost genius their plan is. Terrorism is nothing new! Its been around for hundreds of years if not thousands.


Other lands have spread fear through mass killings. But our government has chosen to destroy the homes and the lives of so many innocent people in of all places Iraq. As much as you brainwashed Americans want to believe that what we are doing is right, we have done nothing but not only add fuel to the fire, but we have become the fire!!!


Fact....Iraq had nothing to do with the 9/11...nothing!


Fact....Outside of being a nasty dictator, in his own country...whose people allowed it, Saddam Hussien was no threat to anyone!


Fact...In the world of high-tech, the U.N. was doing a thorough and exhaustive search using technology that many of us doesn%26#039;t even know exist! What would it have hurt to let them do their job?


Fact....What has been happening in Darfur since 2002!!!.....the Genocide the has murdered and raped so many innocent civilians, far outweighs what was happening in Iraq! But where is the freedom fighting America??? Its in Iraq, fighting in a country that has not attacked us in any way! And now there is talk of attacking the much now-feared Iran. You see the plan has always been to associate terror with a %26#039;face%26#039;!


A real human being. And now that Osama Bin-laden is starting to lose its punch so to speak, once again our president and vice-president have figured that...%26quot;the more the merrier%26quot;! So now its Mahmoud Ahmadinejad. Attack Iran!!!! Think people! It would mean another 2 to 7 year commitment of trillions of dollars! 100,000,000,000,000.....just in case you don%26#039;t really know what a trillion dollars looks like! Thats just one trillion.


Fact...By invading Iraq and spending so much time there, not only Iraq but so many other countries now know just how we operate. After a few years, it was figured out that IED%26#039;s were an indefensible weapon!


We have simply provided a training ground and given hundreds of thousands who normally have nothing to attach themselves to, a reason for themselves to be %26quot;patriots%26quot;! The only reason for such a horrible strategy would only be to keep war going!


Fact...major companies in which either Bush and Cheney were on the board of directors or held interest in...have profited big time for our...thats me and you....money!!!! We are the ones paying these companies through our taxes...from the government which is run by both Dick Cheney and George Bush!


This is not a hard thing to put together and see just what has happened when Bush and Cheney were elected. But some of you just don%26#039;t want to believe that these men have in fact %26quot;USED%26quot; the white house for personal gain...or should I say %26#039;private%26#039; gains.


The question is really not just how hot the fires are going to be for Bush and Cheney, but if whether or not the potential hell that may be coming for us as a nation, we will be able to stand! And believe me...it could get really hot if we allow these two men to take us deeper in our aggressive actions to innocent countries. Should Iran be called out for any thing that can be proven that they have done...absolutely! But the United States of America single handedly possibly starting a world war by attacking Iran is not democracy at all. Unless attacked...the United States should be the one country whose skill in diplomacy should be the example for the world!


Now you tell me......none of this makes sense to you?


If the answer is no....it just got a little bit hotter!!!!!
Reply:You CAN%26#039;T be a Patriot- WITHOUT being a Hypocrite. THAT%26#039;s the Flaw in Nationalism. If We truely ARE the %26quot;land of the free%26quot; for ALL people, and we want cheap products %26amp; unlimited access to the World%26#039;s markets, then we%26#039;re GOING to Outsource %26amp; buy from other Countries- because Capitolism knows NO Borders... %26amp; who%26#039;s going to pay for someone %26quot;else%26#039;s%26quot; -patriotism??!
Reply:personally, I think Obama makes many good points...





more than any other candidate...





and it%26#039;s rediculously hypocritical...





China has numerous rights violations every year... probably many that we don%26#039;t even know about...





yet they get favored nation trading status?





why?





because we make money off of it... or investors make money off of it... if you%26#039;re not an investor, you%26#039;re probably not making money...
Reply:I love how the righties will call Dems/Libs %26quot;commies%26quot; because we favor programs that go to help our citizens, yet they%26#039;ll defend sending money to these %26quot;evil%26quot; communists country all while patting themselves on the back for being patriots.





Does common sense or rational thinking ever factor into the way these people think? Do they not know the definition of hypocrisy? How can one talk about patriotism, then call it%26#039;s own citizens communists for supporting programs that are designed to only help OUR citizens, then defend companies that literally fund and support communists nations? What gives?
Reply:Human societies have evolved by trading with each other. Trading and buying each others products does not imply a lack of patriotism. Bashing one%26#039;s country does. however. I am not saying that you are, BTW.
Reply:You may add to your question that if it is OK to do business with china, why is it not OK to do business with Cuba just next door? At least Cubans are our neighbors. What makes the chinese better communists?
Reply:You can buy flags made in America, you know. Does intentionally shunning the U.S. flag because of NAFTA (which Clinton(D) passed) show some kind of patriotism? If so it%26#039;s an odd brand of it.
Reply:You have a valid concern, however the issues are much more complex than that. A great majority of our (republican initiated) national debt is now owed to China. If we as a nation were to %26quot;pressure%26quot; Beijing, we would pay the cost in increasingly higher inflation and interest rates as our friends to the east would rapidly begin to collect our debt. If we were to simply not pay it, our credit rating with the rest of the world would plummet and we would be literally crushed into a recession.





We also have to live with the reality that we can%26#039;t choose other people%26#039;s government system for them, and we can%26#039;t afford to NOT take advantage of what china has to offer--even if they exploit their workers.





If we were to suspend trade with china, other foreign firms would pick up the slack, and they would be getting their products from--China. China is the world%26#039;s manufacturing capital, and its something that we just have to live with. China is changing from internal pressure, they are just incredibly slow to change.





Frankly, I have no problem with trading with China overall, because the more reliant our two countries are economically, the less chance there is for war.





As far as Patriotism is concerned, it has nothing to do with international trade.
Reply:3 years ago I needed a new car and wanted a hybrid to save money on gas and do my small part toward making the Earth a better place. I had always bought American cars. I wanted an American made car but there were NO AMERICAN MADE HYBRIDS AVAILABLE. I ended up buying another American made fuel burning car and then gas prices shot through the roof.





Over the past few years Toyota and Honda hybrid sales in America have been great because American auto makers were too slow to produce hybrids. Meanwhile, the American auto companies have been losing billions and laying off thousands of workers but their greedy CEO%26#039;s are still making millions and flying in private jets.





The most un-American company right now is Walmart yet most of their shoppers can%26#039;t afford to shop anywhere else or are just too plain dumb to understand that they%26#039;re screwing their own country...





Over the past 6+ years America has become a shameful extension of the greedy crooks who are Bush%26#039;s and Cheney%26#039;s cronies. I still can%26#039;t believe all of those millions of people voted for them AGAIN in 2004. What a terrible shame...





Patriotism? Yeah, sure... At this point Obama, Clinton, Edwards, whichever one gets in has a hell of a job to do getting this country back on track.





Fred Thompson? If America votes in another greedy cowboy crook I%26#039;m moving to Canada...
Reply:BUY AMERICAN MADE PRODUCTS MADE BY SCAB FREE UNION MANUFACTURING!!!





And yes it is unpatriotic. The government does it too, but lets be honest not many presidents or congressmen are PATRIOTS. Most of them are cowards that worship their allmighty dollar.
Reply:I do not believe I am an American Hypocrite. I am an American Patriot. I was a USAF B52 Pilot during the Viet Nam war. I put my money where my mouth was, and supported our country in time of war. Are you willing to do the same? I drive a Chrysler, that was made in America by a German Company. My TVs are all Japanese because no American Company makes them anymore. My computer is HP but most of its components are made outside the US.





There really is only one solution. For businesses to find ways to build it here cheaper than they can outsource it. Right now I do not think that that is possible. The only thing you can do yourself is start a boycott campaign against American Companies who outsource jobs. Stop buying foreign goods.
Reply:No not at all, why doe%26#039;s it have to be USA v the rest of the world, if me a brit buys a Ford car back home do I not love Britain etc, of course not. Or doe%26#039;s it not count when a foriegner is buying US goods. US probably exports more good to other countries that any other and you should be proud that your country has so many resources.





And if you agree with Obama why not vote for him, too many people in USA treat polical parties like football teams and wouldn%26#039;t vote for the other even if there candidate was the devil himself??
Reply:I only lisen to Rush cuz he is always rite, and i drives a ford cause my daddy did. Them commies kin go to h e double l.
Reply:Well if we got unions under rational control, switched our health care to HSA%26#039;s, didn%26#039;t ruin business with lunatic environmental regulations, and got rid of capital gains and corporate taxes. Maybe more businesses would stay in the US instead of moving overseas where business restrictions and regulations are more laxed. And the democrats are the ones that are forcing businesses to flee because of the high taxation, giving unions nearly unlimited negotiating power, making companies provide health insurance and imposing ludacris environmental regulations.





As for buying foreign goods, I don%26#039;t find that to be unpatriotic or hypocritical.



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An answer fo Cares.who22?

Okay, get her some skinny jeans, some cool T-shirts, and maybe some black nail polish.





Here are some clothes from Pacsun she might like.





http://shop.pacsun.com/webapp/wcs/stores...





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Clothes from Zumies.





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Shoes from Famous Footwear.





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You daughter doesn%26#039;t have to dye her hair to be skater. Here are some ways she might want to get it cut though.





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I really hope I helped! Good luck! =]

An answer fo Cares.who22?
Find her question and post this link as you answer. p.s she was in the adolescence section.



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Do you like these shoes?

http://www.kohls.com/products/product_pa...


http://www.journeys.com/catalog_detail.a...





and which do you like better?





http://www.journeys.com/catalog_detail.a...


http://slimages.macys.com/is/image/MCY/p... (black)





I%26#039;m in 8th grade, by the way. I%26#039;m probably gonna get a shorter heel. Or find some way to break it in. Lol.





Oh yeah, and I don%26#039;t care if you like DC or whatever better. Etnies are comfy. %26lt;3





Thanks!

Do you like these shoes?
My neice wears Etnies and Baby Phats in fact I bought her 2 pairs of each for christmas this past year. Of the first two I perfer the Etnies. Of the second pair the first pair I pefer but Im also 35 and can pull them off. I wouldnt buy them for your age group they are nice but kinda a bit to grown up.And I doubt you could get a %26quot;lower heel or break them in%26quot; you dont break in heels like that sweet heart the heel stays that size. Dont be in such a rush to grow up, its not that fun once you get there.
Reply:i love the shoes from journeys





i dont really like the ones from kohls and macys though
Reply:The Kohls Shoes or the Etnies...


they both are cute and look comfy...


i am assuming this is for school...


DO NOT GET HIGH HEELS!!!





Good Luck!!!
Reply:i like the 2nd one


and the 4th one in black





depends if u want everyday shoes go for the second one


but it kinda looks like its for guys





so i think go for some diff. flats
Reply:i loove the first pair!!


the second pair-ook


3rd is very cute!


the last one(s) is/are cute too!!





but the 1st is my fave
Reply:i like the second and third pair the other two aren%26#039;t that great looking although if you like them then whats it matter?
Reply:etnies and black jeweled
Reply:i personaly like the Womens Sarah-Jayne Cintia - Black but i also like the media ballet flats the flats are more me though but whatever its your call
Reply:OMG!!!


I looooooove the ones from khols(brown) I think i wanna go and get some..


~have fun~
Reply:The flats are not my favorite, The etnies are cool but i would probably choose a diff. color, I ABSOLUTLEY LOVE the heels from journeys!!!, i dont care for the heels from macys!
Reply:I like them all except the kohls ones. :-)





i%26#039;m going into 8th grade too!! :-D
Reply:i dont rly like either of the first two but i LOVEE the ones from journeys


http://www.journeys.com/catalog_detail.a...
Reply:1. journeys etnies. GREAT choice, i have etnies also.





2. the second ones they look...less complicated.





im also (going) into 8th grade. have fun!
Reply:i dont like any of those shoes, but for the high heels, i like the first pair from journeys BETTER. etnies are totally cheesball.
Reply:I love the flats! The ethnies...not so sure. And the heels, I like the first ones. =]
Reply:Okay out of the first two I liked teh ones from Journey%26#039;s much better.


And out of the second two I liked the ones from Macys better. :)
Reply:i think the pair from Kohl%26#039;s are the cutest
Reply:I like the Etnies and the black jeweled heels.
Reply:i think all the heels and pumps look a bit cheap tbh


etnies are ok but in black
Reply:The ones from Kohls are so cute!!


I don%26#039;t like the etnies...aren%26#039;t you a girly-girl..all your other shoes are very girly, then you throw those in there...weird. If you want comfort...try anything by sketchers.





As for the heels, the first pair look uncomfortable, but the 2nd pair (Macys) is supercute.





Try these instead of the etnies.


http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.d...





or if you really need a sneaker, try these


http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.d...


http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.d...


http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.d...


http://www.skechers.com/catalog/browse.d...
Reply:The second ones. Journeys etnies. the rest are ugly something i wouldnt wear sorry!!
Reply:i like the very first ones because they were the only ones that suit a gr. 8. the second ones are ugly (not my style, anyway) and the 3rd and 4th ones are for women at least 20 years old!!




horses for loan

What shoes go with this shorts?

i%26#039;m a guy!! http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st... i don%26#039;t care if u think the question is gay as long as u answer it!! :)

What shoes go with this shorts?
A summery sandal of some kind - like a leather flip-flop, and a tan. Do not under any circumstances wear trainers and socks
Reply:http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...


these or clogs similar.
Reply:white adidas with the black stripes
Reply:I would have to say dark flip flops would look best. Try the kind with thin soles a plait pattern.
Reply:Flip-flops or Birkenstocks.
Reply:rainbow sandals go cute....ummm... some nice Reebok classics...very sexy on males with cute ankles and hairy legs
Reply:umm... ive wore shoes with shorts a bunch of times and ive seen a looooot of other people at my school wear shoes with shorts.



visualarts

Are Dr. Martens good shoes, which ones do you like?

http://www.hottopic.com/hottopic/store/p...


http://www.hottopic.com/hottopic/store/p...


http://www.hottopic.com/hottopic/store/p...








I don%26#039;t care if they match my clothes or not, most of them are black but I do have some purple, blue, pinkish, and green, + yellow... so I don%26#039;t limit my colors. I am not Gothic or punk, or emo but I love Hot Topic... so please don%26#039;t ay black because everyone has black and I%26#039;d be more of a copy cat since I don%26#039;t dress hard core anything.

Are Dr. Martens good shoes, which ones do you like?
Go for the yellow...
Reply:Dr. Marten%26#039;s are great shoes, they are very durable. I have worn them for years and I have over 30 pairs. I love the white ones they are different.
Reply:i think there ugly sorry. look like duck hunting shoes or like the shoes that are attached to waders
Reply:They are a little heavy, but very well made.


I like the pink. Check out the drmartens website too.



visual arts

Because youre a man?

Because I%26#039;m a man, when I lock my keys in the car I will fiddle with a wire clothes hanger and ignore your suggestions that we call a road service until long after hypothermia has set in.





Because I%26#039;m a man, when the car isn%26#039;t running very well, I will pop the hood and stare at the engine as if I know what I%26#039;m looking at. If another man shows up, one of us will say to the other, %26quot;I used to be able to fix these things, but now with all these computers and everything, I wouldn%26#039;t know where to start.%26quot; We will then drink beer.





Because I%26#039;m a man, when I catch a cold I need someone to bring me soup and take care of me while I lie in bed and moan. You never get as sick as I do, so for you this isn%26#039;t an issue.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I can be relied upon to purchase basic groceries at the store, like milk or bread. I cannot be expected to find exotic items like %26quot;Cumin%26quot; or %26quot;Tofu%26quot;. For all I know these are the same thing. And never, under any circumstances, expect me to pick up anything for which %26quot;feminine hygiene product%26quot; is a euphemism.





Because I%26#039;m a man, when one of our appliances stops working I will insist on taking it apart, despite evidence that this will just cost me twice as much once the repair person gets here and has to put it back together.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I must hold the television remote control in my hand while I watch TV. If the thing has been misplaced, I may miss a whole show looking for it (though one time I was able to survive by holding a calculator).





Because I%26#039;m a man, I don%26#039;t think we%26#039;re all that lost, and no, I don%26#039;t think we should stop and ask someone. Why would you listen to a complete stranger -- I mean, how the hell could he know where we%26#039;re going?





Because I%26#039;m a man, there is no need to ask me what I%26#039;m thinking about. The answer is always either sex or baseball, though I have to make up something else when you ask, so don%26#039;t.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I am capable of announcing, %26quot;One more beer and I really have to go%26quot;, and mean it every single time I say it, even when it gets to the point that the one bar closes and my buddies and I have to go hunt down another. I will find it increasingly hilarious to have my pals call you to tell you I%26#039;ll be home soon, and no, I don%26#039;t understand why you threw all my clothes into the front yard. Like, what%26#039;s the connection?





Because I%26#039;m a man, you don%26#039;t have to ask me if I liked the movie. Chances are, if you%26#039;re crying at the end of it, I didn%26#039;t.





Because I%26#039;m a man, yes, I have to turn up the radio when Bruce Springsteen or The Doors comes on, and then, yes, I have to tell you every single time about how Bruce had his picture on the cover of Time and Newsweek the same day, or how Jim Morrison is buried in Paris and everyone visits his grave. Please do not behave as if you do not find this fascinating.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I think what you%26#039;re wearing is fine. I thought what you were wearing five minutes ago was fine, too. Either pair of shoes is fine. With the belt or without it looks fine. Your hair is fine. You look fine. Can we just go now?





Because I%26#039;m a man, and this is, after all, the 90%26#039;s, I will share equally in the housework. You just do the laundry, the cooking, the gardening, the cleaning, and the dishes. I%26#039;ll do the rest.





THIS HAS BEEN A PUBLIC SERVICE MESSAGE FOR WOMEN, TO BETTER UNDERSTAND THE MALE ANIMAL.

Because youre a man?
Because I am a man, I have a sense of humor and can laugh at guy bashing, but then make fun of women and get called a male shovenaust pig. And because I%26#039;m a man, i don%26#039;t know how to spell shovenaoust pig.
Reply:that%26#039;s right now that we got that straight get your butt in the kitchen and do those dishes lol I%26#039;m not like that but i just wanted to get a rise out of you like you were trying to do to us
Reply:because im a man..i know its not the 90s...
Reply:that is the third %26quot;question%26quot; about men that you have asked. do you have any other generalizations you would like to share?
Reply:ehhh i want yeer pointsh
Reply:You%26#039;re beautiful %26amp; thanks for the points
Reply:Because I%26#039;m a man I can see that you didn%26#039;t make that up, you copied it from somewhere because you forgot to change the last paragraph where it says %26#039;after all this is the 90%26#039;s.%26#039; Didn%26#039;t you know they finished six years ago? Perhaps not ... because you%26#039;re a woman!
Reply:I know understand my husband better.
Reply:Because you%26#039;re a woman, I always have something beautiful to look at everyday.
Reply:Thanks for the msg and the 2 points.
Reply:So true, XD
Reply:nopoe,i am diffent
Reply:haha lol


good stuff





clik hurr:


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Reply:Um, ha ha?
Reply:XD



tanning

Because i am a man = tell me if it sounds about right?

Because I%26#039;m a man, when I lock my keys in the car I will fiddle with a wire clothes hanger and ignore your suggestions that we call a road service until long after hypothermia has set in.





Because I%26#039;m a man, when the car isn%26#039;t running very well, I will pop the hood and stare at the engine as if I know what I%26#039;m looking at. If another man shows up, one of us will say to the other, %26quot;I used to be able to fix these things, but now with all these computers and everything, I wouldn%26#039;t know where to start.%26quot; We will then drink beer.





Because I%26#039;m a man, when I catch a cold I need someone to bring me soup and take care of me while I lie in bed and moan. You never get as sick as I do, so for you this isn%26#039;t an issue.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I can be relied upon to purchase basic groceries at the store, like milk or bread. I cannot be expected to find exotic items like soap or olive oil. For all I know these are the same thing. And never, under any circumstances, expect me to pick up anything for which %26quot;feminine hygiene product%26quot; is a euphemism.





Because I%26#039;m a man, when one of our appliances stops working I will insist on taking it apart, despite evidence that this will just cost me twice as much once the repair person gets here and has to put it back together.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I must hold the television remote control in my hand while I watch TV. If the thing has been misplaced, I may miss a whole show looking for it (though one time I was able to survive by holding a calculator).





Because I%26#039;m a man, there is no need to ask me what I%26#039;m thinking about. The answer is always either sex, racing, or football, though I have to make up something else when you ask, so don%26#039;t.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I do not want to visit your mother, or have your mother come visit us, or talk to her when she calls, or think about her any more than I have to. Whatever you got her for mother%26#039;s day is okay, I don%26#039;t need to see it. And don%26#039;t forget to pick up something for my Mom too!!





Because I%26#039;m a man, you don%26#039;t have to ask me if I liked the movie. Chances are, if you%26#039;re crying at the end of it, I didn%26#039;t.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I think what you%26#039;re wearing is fine. I thought what you were wearing five minutes ago was fine, too. Either pair of shoes is fine. With the belt or without it looks fine. Your hair is fine. You look fine. Can we just go now?





Because I%26#039;m a man, I will share equally in the housework. You just do the laundry, the cooking, the gardening, the cleaning, and the dishes. I%26#039;ll do the rest.

Because i am a man = tell me if it sounds about right?
wow a man who knows his faults rare


i know, your missus is holding a gun to your head while you write


like it all the same


a star for you
Reply:Sounds exactly right.
Reply:And they say us woman go on and on. And after all that, because I am a woman I have got a headache and am going to have a lie down. And dont disturb me.....
Reply:Because you are a man, you NEED a woman!
Reply:zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz...
Reply:yeah its right. thats exactely what u men do.
Reply:Fcukin brilliant mate-you%26#039;ve just described me better than I ever could-Empathy and respect to ya!!!
Reply:dodgybloke you deserve a star......you bin goin through my mans profile lol......
Reply:Ha, ha, made me laugh, have a star.
Reply:that is so true ;;* it makes so much sense
Reply:I LOVE it!!!!!!!!!
Reply:This is so close to perfect that it scares me.
Reply:sounds right to me... you cant beat perfection!


what does euphemism mean?



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Because I'm A Man?

Willys cynical thought for the fugging day,





This sign will be posted wherever I work: %26quot;We don%26#039;t discriminate against crazy people, but if you%26#039;re stupid you%26#039;re on your fawking own!%26quot;





Because I%26#039;m A Man -





Because I%26#039;m a man, when I lock my keys in the car I will fiddle with a wire clothes hanger and ignore your suggestions that we call a road service until long after hypothermia has set in.





Because I%26#039;m a man, when the car isn%26#039;t running very well, I will pop the hood and stare at the engine as if I know what I%26#039;m looking at. If another man shows up, one of us will say to the other, %26quot;I used to be able to fix these things, but now with all these computers and everything, I wouldn%26#039;t know where to start.%26quot;





We will then drink beer.





Because I%26#039;m a man, when I catch a cold I need someone to bring me soup and take care of me while I lie in bed and moan. You never get as sick as I do, so for you this isn%26#039;t an issue.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I can be relied upon to purchase basic groceries at the store, like milk or bread. I cannot be expected to find exotic items like “Cumin%26quot; or %26quot;Tofu%26quot; For all I know these are the same thing. And never, under any circumstances, expect me to pick up anything for which %26quot;feminine hygiene product%26quot; is a euphemism.





Because I%26#039;m a man, when one of our appliances stops working I will insist on taking it apart, despite evidence that this will just cost me twice as much once the repair person gets here and has to put it back together.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I must hold the television remote control in my hand while I watch TV. If the thing has been misplaced, I may miss a whole show looking for it (though one time I was able to survive by holding a calculator).





Because I%26#039;m a man, I don%26#039;t think we%26#039;re all that lost, and no, I don%26#039;t think we should stop and ask someone. Why would you listen to a complete stranger-I mean, how the hell could he know where we%26#039;re going?





Because I%26#039;m a man, there is no need to ask me what I%26#039;m thinking about. The answer is always either sex or football, though I have to make up something else when you ask, so don%26#039;t.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I do not want to visit your mother, or have your mother come visit us, or talk to her when she calls, or think about her any more than I have to. Whatever you got her for mother%26#039;s day is okay, I don%26#039;t need to see it. And don%26#039;t forget to pick up something for my Mom too!!





Because I%26#039;m a man, you don%26#039;t have to ask me if I liked the movie. Chances are, if you%26#039;re crying at the end of it, I didn%26#039;t.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I think what you%26#039;re wearing is fine. I thought what you were wearing five minutes ago was fine, too. Either pair of shoes is fine. With the belt or without it looks fine. Your hair is fine. You look fine. Can we just go now?





Because I%26#039;m a man, and this is, after all, the 1st century, I will share equally in the housework. You just do the laundry, the cooking, the gardening, the cleaning, and the dishes. I will do the rest.





~ This has been ~


A public Service message for Women, to better understand the Male animal.





http://www.willyblues.com/

Because I%26#039;m A Man?
Interesting... and insightful... but true... I wonder what will the response to that... %26quot;Just because I am a Woman?%26quot; would be.... let%26#039;s face it... it was a woman who gave birth to men... men do not like the fact that more and more women are and can be just as capable... the only thing different... either sex lack what the other needs to procreate... a penis and a vagina.... please don%26#039;t discriminate against me because I am just a woman.... you truly have to be a woman... to see where we are coming from.... then men wouldn%26#039;t take us for granted.............
Reply:Don%26#039;t mislabel the word feminist.... It means in promoting the interests of women... not anti-men... .. Thanks for the points.. Report It

Reply:Yes, you truly are a fine example of a man.
Reply:I couldn%26#039;t have put it any better.
Reply:Ha Ha, very funny. We may get lost sometimes but you women would be lost without us.
Reply:Thanks for clearin%26#039; that up!!!
Reply:hi!!! sounds fair enough for her...lol jk..thnks!@jokes...10!
Reply:I%26#039;ve been feeling a little blue today but when I read this I had to smile. Thanks for cheering me up!
Reply:I really enjoyed that one, keep up the good work.
Reply:That was cool. Thanks for the laugh
Reply:Thanx for the blurb from another man.
Reply:OH, Please, As a Man I really Confirm These!!!
Reply:yep...yer are absolutely right %26#039;bout that..!!! i agree...
Reply:What would women do without us men ? I do believe you covered all the bases.
Reply:Yes, describes men perfectly.



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Any girls relate to this??

Because I%26#039;m a man, when I lock my keys in the car I will fiddle with a wire clothes hanger and ignore your suggestions that we call a road service until long after hypothermia has set in.





Because I%26#039;m a man, when the car isn%26#039;t running very well, I will pop the hood and stare at the engine as if I know what I%26#039;m looking at. If another man shows up, one of us will say to the other, %26quot;I used to be able to fix these things, but now with all these computers and everything, I wouldn%26#039;t know where to start.%26quot; We will then drink beer.





Because I%26#039;m a man, when I catch a cold I need someone to bring me soup and take care of me while I lie in bed and moan. You never get as sick as I do, so for you this isn%26#039;t an issue.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I can be relied upon to purchase basic groceries at the store, like milk or bread. I cannot be expected to find exotic items like %26quot;Cumin%26quot; or %26quot;Tofu%26quot;. For all I know these are the same thing. And never, under any circumstances, expect me to pick up anything for which %26quot;feminine hygiene product%26quot; is a euphemism.





Because I%26#039;m a man, when one of our appliances stops working I will insist on taking it apart, despite evidence that this will just cost me twice as much once the repair person gets here and has to put it back together.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I must hold the television remote control in my hand while I watch TV. If the thing has been misplaced, I may miss a whole show looking for it (though one time I was able to survive by holding a calculator).





Because I%26#039;m a man, there is no need to ask me what I%26#039;m thinking about. The answer is always either sex, racing, or football, though I have to make up something else when you ask, so don%26#039;t.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I do not want to visit your mother, or have your mother come visit us, or talk to her when she calls, or think about her any more than I have to. Whatever you got her for mother%26#039;s day is okay, I don%26#039;t need to see it. And don%26#039;t forget to pick up something for my Mom too!!





Because I%26#039;m a man, you don%26#039;t have to ask me if I liked the movie. Chances are, if you%26#039;re crying at the end of it, I didn%26#039;t.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I think what you%26#039;re wearing is fine. I thought what you were wearing five minutes ago was fine, too. Either pair of shoes is fine. With the belt or without it looks fine. Your hair is fine. You look fine. Can we just go now?





Because I%26#039;m a man, I will share equally in the housework. You just do the laundry, the cooking, the gardening, the cleaning, and the dishes. I%26#039;ll do the rest.

Any girls relate to this??
Atleast your honest with yourself!!!!
Reply:Or we can ditch the sterotypes, nah that%26#039;d be a bad idea.





Plus who the hell wants equality, lets have a rash set of double standards, but still expect the perks of equality.
Reply:that is so true
Reply:Sounds like all the men I%26#039;ve ever known.
Reply:oh so true....you must really be a woman!! lol!!
Reply:Great!lol lol !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



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Can We Ever Understand Men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Subject: Can we ever understand men?








Because I%26#039;m a man, when I lock my keys in the car I will fiddle with a


wire long after hypothermia has set in.





Because I%26#039;m a man, when the car isn%26#039;t running very well, I will pop


the


hood and stare at the engine as if I know what I%26#039;m looking at. If


another man shows up, one of us will say to the other, %26quot;I used to be


able to fix these things, but now with all these computers and


everything, I wouldn%26#039;t, know where to start.%26quot;





Because I%26#039;m a man, when I catch a cold, I need someone to bring me


soup


and take care of me while I lie in bed and moan. You%26#039;re a woman. You


never get as sick as I do, so for you this isn%26#039;t a problem.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I can be relied upon to purchase basic groceries at


the store, like milk or bread. I cannot be expected to find exotic


items like %26quot;cumin%26quot; or %26quot;tofu.%26quot; For all I know, these are the same


thing.


And never, under any circumstances, expect me to pick up anything for


which %26quot;feminine hygiene product%26quot; is a euphemism.





Because I%26#039;m a man, when one of our appliances stops working, I will


insist on taking it apart, despite evidence that this will just cost


me


twice as, much once the repair person gets here and has to put it back


together.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I must hold the television remote control in my


hand


while I watch TV. If the thing has been misplaced, I may miss a whole


show looking for it (though one time I was able to survive by holding


a


calculator).





Because I%26#039;m a man, I don%26#039;t think we%26#039;re all that lost, and no, I don%26#039;t


think we should stop and ask someone. Why would you listen to a


complete stranger? I mean, how on earth could he know where we%26#039;re


going?





Because I%26#039;m a man, whatever you get your mother for Mother%26#039;s Day is


okay; I don%26#039;t need to see it. And while you%26#039;re at it, don%26#039;t forget to


pick up something for my mother, also. And, please sign the card too.





Because I%26#039;m a man, you don%26#039;t have to ask me if I liked the movie.


Chances are, if you%26#039;re crying at the end of it, I didn%26#039;t.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I think what you%26#039;re wearing is fine. I thought what


you were wearing five minutes ago was fine, too. Either pair of shoes


is fine. With the belt or without it---looks fine. Your hair is fine.


You look fine. Can we just go now?





This has been a public service message for Women to better understand


the Male species.

Can We Ever Understand Men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
Women will never understand men and vice versa. That%26#039;s what makes life intertersting.
Reply:yes you can understand men if you are a perfect woman
Reply:because i am aman i%26#039;ll nver answer your questions
Reply:LOL.
Reply:because you%26#039;re a woman you shave your eyebrows off then paint them back on , because you%26#039;re a woman you say you%26#039;re looking for a real man ,then you get boob jobs , luposuction, dye your hair , because you%26#039;re a woman you tell us don%26#039;t lie then get mad when you ask does this make me look fat , because you%26#039;re a woman you have over 100 sets of clothes then tell us you don%26#039;t have a thing to wear, because you%26#039;re a woman you say you hate people who gossip , then start talking about the neighbor lady who you think is a hooker
Reply:te-he so true lol but the remote yeah thats me I can%26#039;t let it out of my sight and when I do I search for it while my show is on and then i%26#039;ll find something to distract me usually my cellphone lol ♥
Reply:too many unanswered questions...:)


gives me doubt too...:)
Reply:i love men, well my man i think the annoying things just make me love them more.... they put up with our habits and i reakon we have a lot more than them
Reply:%26quot;Son, if you don%26#039;t stop masturbating, you%26#039;ll go blind!





Dad,











I%26#039;m over here!
Reply:no, if they do spmething wrong thats coz they forgot but if we did thats our foolishness!!
Reply:no
Reply:It is strange, but the older they get, the more mellow they are. So the younger ones are hard to understand, but so are women. However, as you age, you become best friends, and all that other stuff just goes away. You understand each other and if you have lasted very long with each other, you just love each other in spite of it all. By that time, it is all over almost, so you better try harder sooner and you will have a better life together. You understand and it just does not really matter the older you get. We have lots of fun, and never argue any more. Been married too long I guess. I can%26#039;t tell you how long, because you would think I was too old, he,he.
Reply:woman = wo + man


so......u can
Reply:Yes. I can understand them and my understanding is that they are all puppies. Feed them, love them and play with them.



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So we are having an 8th grade celebration, what do you think of these?

Usually its the 8th grade banquet =\, now its the 8th grade celebration. So it casual, what do you think of these bermuda shorts?





http://www.aeropostale.com/product/index...








also, if you have time could you look on websites and help me pick out something to wear? I if you like the shorts pick like a CUTE top, maybe some shoes, jewelry. If you dont like them pick a new pair. They HAVE to be the long kind though. I dont care what website you get the clothes from!

So we are having an 8th grade celebration, what do you think of these?
i like the shorts just pair them with a flowy white/off white shirt and you%26#039;ll be gorgeous!
Reply:Those shorts are Cute! Wear this shirt with it!http://www.aeropostale.com/product/index...


http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st...





and then wear the tank under it it will look really cute!





http://claires.com/product.asp?name=prod... -necklace
Reply:well i kinda look on other sites...


here%26#039;s the picture...





http://i30.tinypic.com/vym620.jpg





the top and bottom are from aeropostale


and the wedges are from ae
Reply:i would say wear the shorts with a plain gray or white tank or t shirt and wedges. then wear a few layered necklaces in different lengths.
Reply:i like abrecrombie better~
Reply:which top??


its the wrong link
Reply:those are bomb



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Bcoz i am a man?

Because I%26#039;m a man, when I lock my keys in the car I will fiddle with a wire clothes hanger and ignore your suggestions that we call a road service until long after hypothermia has set in.





Because I%26#039;m a man, when the car isn%26#039;t running very well, I will pop the hood and stare at the engine as if I know what I%26#039;m looking at. If another man shows up, one of us will say to the other, %26quot;I used to be able to fix these things, but now with all these computers and everything, I wouldn%26#039;t know where to start.%26quot; We will then drink beer.





Because I%26#039;m a man, when I catch a cold I need someone to bring me soup and take care of me while I lie in bed and moan. You never get as sick as I do, so for you this isn%26#039;t an issue.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I can be relied upon to purchase basic groceries at the store, like milk or bread. I cannot be expected to find exotic items like %26quot;Cumin%26quot; or %26quot;Tofu%26quot;. For all I know these are the same thing. And never, under any circumstances, expect me to pick up anything for which %26quot;feminine hygiene product%26quot; is a euphemism.





Because I%26#039;m a man, when one of our appliances stops working I will insist on taking it apart, despite evidence that this will just cost me twice as much once the repair person gets here and has to put it back together.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I must hold the television remote control in my hand while I watch TV. If the thing has been misplaced, I may miss a whole show looking for it (though one time I was able to survive by holding a calculator).





Because I%26#039;m a man, I don%26#039;t think we%26#039;re all that lost, and no, I don%26#039;t think we should stop and ask someone. Why would you listen to a complete stranger -- I mean, how the hell could he know where we%26#039;re going?





Because I%26#039;m a man, there is no need to ask me what I%26#039;m thinking about. The answer is always either sex or baseball, though I have to make up something else when you ask, so don%26#039;t.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I am capable of announcing, %26quot;One more beer and I really have to go%26quot;, and mean it every single time I say it, even when it gets to the point that the one bar closes and my buddies and I have to go hunt down another. I will find it increasingly hilarious to have my pals call you to tell you I%26#039;ll be home soon, and no, I don%26#039;t understand why you threw all my clothes into the front yard. Like, what%26#039;s the connection?





Because I%26#039;m a man, you don%26#039;t have to ask me if I liked the movie. Chances are, if you%26#039;re crying at the end of it, I didn%26#039;t.





Because I%26#039;m a man, yes, I have to turn up the radio when Bruce Springsteen or The Doors comes on, and then, yes, I have to tell you every single time about how Bruce had his picture on the cover of Time and Newsweek the same day, or how Jim Morrison is buried in Paris and everyone visits his grave. Please do not behave as if you do not find this fascinating.





Because I%26#039;m a man, I think what you%26#039;re wearing is fine. I thought what you were wearing five minutes ago was fine, too. Either pair of shoes is fine. With the belt or without it looks fine. Your hair is fine. You look fine. Can we just go now?





Because I%26#039;m a man, and this is, after all, the 90%26#039;s, I will share equally in the housework. You just do the laundry, the cooking, the gardening, the cleaning, and the dishes. I%26#039;ll do the rest.





THIS HAS BEEN A PUBLIC SERVICE MESSAGE FOR WOMEN, TO BETTER UNDERSTAND THE MALE ANIMAL.

Bcoz i am a man?
Wow. Must have taken some time to type all this! Shawn, this is another one you have hit right on target! So true, so right. Of course there are some exceptions... but like I said %26quot;some%26quot;.
Reply:Shawn can I ask you what was your purpose to write this message?





and could you break from this mold?
Reply:Sorry mate but you actually tink people can be bothered to read all that!!??? jeez
Reply:are talking about my husband personally there cause that is him to a T
Reply:Because I%26#039;m a woman, I already know everything. Heh.
Reply:i agee..yes
Reply:whatever!
Reply:We are great.
Reply:its good a little long but good
Reply:Because I am women.......I%26#039;ll leave this one alone...
Reply:i understand more than you think...


lol...


:)...GOD BLESS!! and thnx 4 the message
Reply:ha ha ha
Reply:WOW.COOL!STAR 4 YOU!
Reply:I don%26#039;t know if everything is of you, but i do like this text, and i do like men as they are, if they weren%26#039;t as they are, the world shall be annoying. kisses



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She just being friendly or is she interested?? Looking for PLAYER advice!! VER LONG WILL GIVE POINTS!?

1. For example she would ask me what shoe looks better on me, and i would say everything looks good


on you, your too cute. Etc. She seems to shy away from these comments, looks away or ignored i said it,


but doesnt seem like a %26quot;get out of my face%26quot; look or anything.





2. I would joke around make fun of stuff shes self-concisous about herself, in a joking manner, but i dont


overdo it..





3. I would flirt by making stupid bets, saying if i sold this item today u gotta buy me a dinner, etc...


She would laff and say what about my bf? I say who cares?? she laffs (it shows i aint


scared, hopefully) Later that nite she sold the product i was suppose to sell (go figure) i asked her to


buy me dinner, she said haha i sold it though, and then i said then ill buy dinner,


she looked at me smiling and said ok haha..and said im a buy something expensive and laffed.

She just being friendly or is she interested?? Looking for PLAYER advice!! VER LONG WILL GIVE POINTS!?
dam as long as question but here i go..aight well she likes u i can almost sure..she does n by the way she wants u to feel here legs a gud sign u got a chance of hittin it..( im just sayin)....since her bf%26#039;s goin to korea(wat now were in war againist Korea?)aight well u got the better of it keep workin at it with her..u lookin gud rite now u don%26#039;t need much advice ..but if u do yea n fo real korean girls r freaks i use date this korean n black girl..dam she was an animal fo real...n she wa sfine 2..mayne ..they gud fo real...
Reply:sounds like she likes you, as much as you like her.


take her out and enjoy yourselves and see what happens.


if you two are old enogh or at least if it is ok with your parents.
Reply:LOL korean





here we go ima gonna write a novel





ima korean....


ive dated korean nunas, korean nurses, random korean girls i met at clubs, my korean professor, ive even dated my ex girlfriends best friend, and her friend at the same time.





all these things I am not proud of because i learned many things the hard way, and ive had my heart broken. by the girl i loved.





let me tell ya this man....





korean girls are the hottest, sexyest, naughtiest, most fun beautiful women in the world.... BUT





they are also the most foxest sly girls man.


yeah hell, U may think that your got this girl on a fcukin leash, but from what ima read.... shes got you on her pinky man. no offence





the prettier the slyer in my opinion. bet shes the hottest little thing you ever seen and touched. dun let it go sooo fast...





a girl whos met ya for a week.... and shes already touching you.. (when girls touch, its an indication to other women that YOU are taken by HER) OMg i can Just seee her doing that man.... accidently brushing by you, her hair like blowing in your face.... LOLZ





have you Ever met her BF? hes mite be the nicest thingy alive. proli unlucky thing too, hes going to army.... and you proli dun have to, yeah she KNows the inevitable that once in army two whole years.. she wants out.





shes could be using you. using you to get out, using you coz you treat her like a princess. shes proli gonna date you guys both, and slowly stop sending letters to her bf. shiftly little thing





dunno man.... its only been a short period of time.





BUT on the other hand...


i could be Totally wrong... maybe this girl is alrite, maybe she aint the vixen ima imagining from what you wrote.





mayb shes scared, scared that she cant push you away strongly, after all getting a job in korea is reali reali hard, and ur bosses son. %26gt;.%26lt; but.... i doubt it.





i recon shes got a little sumthing for ya. if your looking for fun, and you dun reali reali like her, yeah go ahead man...





but NEVER EVER EVER listen to what a girl says about her BF. girls say alot of crap about their men, when they in distress....





they just gotta let it out some place... half of it usuali aient even true. yeah her talking bout her BF... thats what her girls friends are for. shes a real piece of work using that on you.





Oh and one more thing... if a guy was to pull my woman while me going tripping... id get ma bro to fcuk him without a second thought, so find out who the guy is b4 you jump in the love garden
Reply:I don%26#039;t think she likes you like that. I think that she is just friendly. I think that she needs to stop sending you mixed messages. Why don%26#039;t you just ask her if she likes you, then you will know. I flirt with guys and talk to them how she talks to you all the time and when I go home, they don%26#039;t even cross my mind.
Reply:i think she is interested but at the same time i believe she is confused.you should either give it more time and the answers your looking for may be revealed,or talk to her about how you feel,keep in mind you have only known her for a short time.
Reply:imo


she%26#039;s looking for a 3rd to party,


3some








@ topic maker





who cares what my questions are about?





look at what i have for best answers and answers....








btw being a %26quot;pimp%26quot; means u dont ask for relationship help online. which i obviously dont.
Reply:its total no no what do you think if she acts kool then shes yours if she has a bf then how come she would like you


if you have that much guts just tell her that you are in love with her just bare the reaction


risk is life bro



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She telling me to backoff? Friends?? Or is she interested?? Looking For Player Advice ITS VERY LONG!!?

1. I Called her cute couple of times, 1-2 times every couple of days.. to give her hints.


For example she would ask me what shoe looks better on me, and i would say everything looks good


on you, your too cute. Etc. She seems to shy away from these comments, looks away or ignored i said it,


but doesnt seem like a %26quot;get out of my face%26quot; look or anything.





2. I would joke around make fun of stuff shes self-concisous about herself, i call her chubby


in a joking manner, she would laugh hit me in the arm, but i dont overdo it.





3. I would flirt by making stupid bets, saying if i sold this item today u gotta buy me a dinner, etc...


She would laff and say what about my bf? I say who cares?? she laffs (it shows i aint


scared, hopefully) Later that nite she sold the product i was suppose to sell (go figure) i asked her to


buy me dinner, she said haha i sold it though, and then i said then ill buy dinner,


she looked at me smiling and said ok haha..and said im a buy something expensive and laffed.

She telling me to backoff? Friends?? Or is she interested?? Looking For Player Advice ITS VERY LONG!!?
dude thats cold, going for a girl who is takin by a guy who is in the army no less. i get what your sayin but seems a bit low.
Reply:I%26#039;m a girl. Yeah, she likes you, but she has a boyfriend. You shoudn%26#039;t be messing with her, you%26#039;re gonna ruin it with her and her boyfriend. And all you wanna do is tap that anyways. Bad, bad boy!
Reply:Say homboi the boyfriend doesnt matter he might as not even be mentioned. Jus out of nowhere invite her to go do somthin with ya like catch a flick or somplace kewl and if she calles it a date then thats what it is.
Reply:Hate to say but you%26#039;re kinda coming on too strong. Flattery is nice but you%26#039;ve only known her a week. Cool it and just be normal. She%26#039;s got a boyfriend. If you back off and if she is interested, she will come to you. (Like flirt and be more touchy, cause it sounds like she%26#039;s a toucher.)





Get to know her a little better and then see if she%26#039;ll go out with you but you%26#039;re kinda coming off a little desperate because any opportunity you have you%26#039;re putting yourself out as %26quot;available%26quot;. You just need to be smoother... Don%26#039;t act like she%26#039;s the first hot thing you%26#039;ve ever seen. Like you%26#039;re not needy for the company of a female. (Even if you have to lie...but be realistic in your lying)





BTW: joking or not no girl really likes to be called chubby.
Reply:well duh she likes you. even though she has a bf. that is leaving she knows this. and you guys constanly flirt with each other... it%26#039;s really common sense. when he leaves guess what going to happen? your coming into the picture.
Reply:flirt with her more. but you are in korea, and what you are doing isnt playing, your looking for a girlfriend.
Reply:BOTH 19 AND IMPRESSIONABLE. DOES SHE LIKE YOU OR YOUR DAD IS THE OWNER STATUS?.





BOYFRIEND GOING OVERSEAS AND HAS NOT ASKED HER TO MARRY HIM IS A DEFINITE PLUS+





LISTEN TO YOUR HEART. IF YOU CAN SAY WHAT YOU HAVE ABOVE A LOT YOU LIKE HER AND SE IS INTERESTED IN YOU?



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So, Osama Walks into This Bar, See?

and Bush says, %26quot;Whad%26#039;l%26#039;ya have, pardner?%26quot; and Osama says...





But wait a minute. I%26#039;d better shut my mouth. The sign here in the airport says, %26quot;Security is no joking matter.%26quot; But if security%26#039;s no joking matter, why does this guy dressed in a high-school marching band outfit tell me to dump my Frappuccino and take off my shoes? All I can say is, Thank the Lord the %26quot;shoe bomber%26quot; didn%26#039;t carry Semtex in his underpants.





Today%26#039;s a RED and ORANGE ALERT day. How odd. They just caught the British guys with the chemistry sets. But when these guys were about to blow up airliners, the USA was on YELLOW alert. That%26#039;s a %26quot;lowered%26quot; threat notice.





According to the press office from the Department of Homeland Security, lowered-threat Yellow means that there were no special inspections of passengers or cargo. Isn%26#039;t it nice of Mr. Bush to alert Osama when half our security forces are given the day off? Hmm. I asked an Israeli security expert why his nation doesn%26#039;t use these pretty color codes.





He asked me if, when I woke up, I checked the day%26#039;s terror color.





%26quot;I can%26#039;t say I ever have. I mean, who would?%26quot;





He smiled. %26quot;The terrorists.%26quot;





America is the only nation on the planet that kindly informs bombers, hijackers and berserkers the days on which they won%26#039;t be monitored. You%26#039;ve got to get up pretty early in the morning to get a jump on George Bush%26#039;s team.





There are three possible explanations for the Administration%26#039;s publishing a good-day-for-bombing color guidebook.





1. God is on Osama%26#039;s side.





2. George is on Osama%26#039;s side.





3. Fear sells better than sex.





A gold star if you picked #3.





The Fear Factory





I%26#039;m going to tell you something which is straight-up heresy: America is not under attack by terrorists. There is no WAR on terror because, except for one day five years ago, al Qaeda has pretty much left us alone.





That%26#039;s because Osama got what he wanted. There%26#039;s no mystery about what Al Qaeda was after. Like everyone from the Girl Scouts to Bono, Osama put his wish on his web site. He had a single demand: %26quot;Crusaders out of the land of the two Holy Places.%26quot; To translate: get US troops out of Saudi Arabia.





And George Bush gave it to him. On April 29, 2003, two days before landing on the aircraft carrier Lincoln, our self-described %26quot;War President%26quot; quietly put out a notice that he was withdrawing our troops from Saudi soil. In other words, our cowering cowboy gave in whimpering to Osama%26#039;s demand.





The press took no note. They were all wiggie over Bush%26#039;s waddling around the carrier deck in a disco-aged jump suit announcing, %26quot;MISSION ACCOMPLISHED.%26quot; But it wasn%26#039;t America%26#039;s mission that was accomplished, it was Osama%26#039;s.





Am I saying there%26#039;s no danger, no threat? Sure there is: 46 million Americans don%26#039;t have health insurance. IBM is legally stealing from its employees%26#039; pension plan and United Airlines has dumped its pensions altogether. Four-million three-hundred thousand Americans were injured, made sick or killed by their jobs last year. TXU Corporation is right now building four monster-sized power plants in Texas that will burn skuzzy gunk called %26quot;lignite.%26quot; The filth it will pour into the sky will snuff a heck of a lot more Americans than some goofy group of fanatics with bottles of hydrogen peroxide.





But Americans don%26#039;t ask for real protection from what%26#039;s killing us. The War on Terror is the Weapon of Mass Distraction. Instead of demanding health insurance, we have 59 million of our fellow citizens pooping in their pants with fear of Al Qaeda, waddling to the polls, crying, %26quot;Georgie save us!%26quot;





And what does he give us? In my own small town, the federal government has paid for loading an SUV with .50 caliber machine guns to watch for an Al Qaeda attack at the dock of the ferry that takes tourists to the Indian casino in Connecticut. The casino dock is my town%26#039;s officially designated %26quot;Critical Asset and Vulnerability Infrastructure Point (CAVIP).%26quot; (To find the most vulnerable points to attack in the USA, Al Qaeda can download a list from the Department of Homeland Security -- no kidding.)





But that%26#039;s not all. Bush is protecting us from English hijackers with a fearsome anti-terrorist tool: the Virginia-class submarine. The V-boat was originally meant to hunt Soviet subs. But there are no more Soviet subs. So, General Dynamics and Lockheed Martin have %26quot;refitted%26quot; these Cold War dinosaurs with new torpedoes redesigned to carry counter-terror commandoes. That%26#039;s right: when we find Osama%26#039;s beach house, we can shoot our boys right up under his picnic table and take him out. These Marines-in-a-tube injector boats cost $2.5 billion each -- and our President%26#039;s ordered half a dozen new ones.





Lynn Cheney, the Veep%26#039;s wife, still takes in compensation from Lockheed as a former board member. I%26#039;m sure that has nothing to do with this multi-billion dollar %26quot;anti-terror%26quot; contract.





Fear sells better than sex. Fear is the sales pitch for many lucrative products: from billion-dollar sailor injectors to one very lucrative war in Mesopotamia (a third of a trillion dollars doled out, no audits, no questions asked).





Better than toothpaste that makes our teeth whiter than white, this stuff will make us safer than safe. It%26#039;s political junk food, the cheap filling in the flashy tube. What we don%26#039;t get is safety from the real dangers: a life-threatening health-care system, lung-murdering pollution production and a trade deficit with China that%26#039;s reducing mid-America to coolie status. Protecting us from these true threats would take a slice of the profits of the Lockheeds, the Exxons and the rest of the owning class.





War on Terror is class war by other means -- to keep you from asking for real protection from true menace, the landlords of our nation give you fake protection from manufactured dangers. And they remind you to be afraid every time you fly to see Aunt Millie and have to give up your hemorrhoid ointment to the underpaid guy in the bell-hop suit with a security badge.





Oh, hey, you never got the punch line.


So, Osama Walks into This Bar, See? and Bush says, %26quot;Whad%26#039;l%26#039;ya have, pardner?%26quot; and Osama says, %26quot;Well, George, what are you serving today?%26quot; and Bush says, %26quot;Fear,%26quot; and Osama shouts, %26quot;Fear for everybody!%26quot; and George pours it on for the crowd. Then the presidential bartender says, %26quot;Hey, who%26#039;s buying?%26quot; and Osama points a thumb at the crowd sucking down their brew. %26quot;They are,%26quot; he says. And the two of them share a quiet laugh.

So, Osama Walks into This Bar, See?
I think you misunderstood the name of this section of Yahoo!





It is called Yahoo! Answers, not Yahoo! Political Rants. And, although I don%26#039;t like Bush as President either, please ask a question or go somewhere else with your views.
Reply:This is great! Good story. I say to the USA....Shame on you!! You bully!! Report It

Reply:After I had to scroll through your question I forgot my answer.
Reply:%26quot;Here, here, well spoken, Bruce.%26quot;


(A little Monty Python ought to kick things up a notch.)
Reply:I have to agree with the shoe bomber joke. I actually parodied a CNN article about the liquids ban in regards to clothing, but my wife has yet to put it on her blog, and I am too lazy to get one (if I do, I will be expected to keep adding to it...). Ah well, such is life.





Just don%26#039;t bother flying, if you can help it.





I prefer the joke %26quot;A man walks into a bar.%26quot;



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She interested or just being friendly?? Looking for playas advice. ONLY!! VERY LONG will give points!!!?

1. For example she would ask me what shoe looks better on me, and i would say everything looks good


on you, your too cute. Etc. She seems to shy away from these comments, looks away or ignored i said it,


but doesnt seem like a %26quot;get out of my face%26quot; look or anything.





2. I would joke around make fun of stuff shes self-concisous about herself, i call her chubby


in a joking manner, she would laugh hit me in the arm, but i dont overdo it.





3. I would flirt by making stupid bets, saying if i sold this item today u gotta buy me a dinner, etc...


She would laff and say what about my bf? I say who cares?? she laffs (it shows i aint


scared, hopefully) Later that nite she sold the product i was suppose to sell (go figure) i asked her to


buy me dinner, she said haha i sold it though, and then i said then ill buy dinner,


she looked at me smiling and said ok haha..and said im a buy something expensive and laffed.

She interested or just being friendly?? Looking for playas advice. ONLY!! VERY LONG will give points!!!?
No man, sorry. She is not into you (YET).


Stop messing things up, Stp being a nice friendly guy (if she is a 9 or a 10).


You need to make fun of her anytime you get a chance. If she touch you, that a good sign. Tease her that she is trowing herself at you and tell her that you are not an easy guy to get.


Don%26#039;t be a wussy, meet others women and mostly try to get their phone numbers while she is looking. Do not make this a big deal at all man. They are 2.5 billion female out here. Last advice NEVER give your power to a female, NEVER be nice to a female just because she is beautiful, NEVER seek approval from women and never EVER date a single female at time. Date 2 or 3 everytime and tell them that you are looking for the best among them.





From what u said, the girl is not into you. Women don%26#039;t love you because you showed them how you love them or how special (nice guy) you are. Women love you because they are attracted to you. The things that I know women are attracted too are money and power. If you don%26#039;t have those you have to be an alpha male to create attraction. So be the alpha not the Wussy.



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She being nice or is she interested??? This is VERY LONG but please help ill give points!!?

1. I Called her cute couple of times, 1-2 times every couple of days.. to give her hints.


For example she would ask me what shoe looks better on me, and i would say everything looks good


on you, your too cute. Etc. She seems to shy away from these comments, looks away or ignored i said it,


but doesnt seem like a %26quot;get out of my face%26quot; look or anything.





2. I would joke around make fun of stuff shes self-concisous about herself, call her chubby,


in a joking manner, she would laugh hit me in the arm, but i dont overdo it.





3. I would flirt by making stupid bets, saying if i sold this item today u gotta buy me a dinner, etc...


She would laff and say what about my bf? I say who cares?? she laffs (it shows i aint


scared, hopefully) Later that nite she sold the product i was suppose to sell (go figure) i asked her to


buy me dinner, she said haha i sold it though, and then i said then ill buy dinner,


she looked at me smiling and said ok haha..and said im a buy something expensive and laffed.

She being nice or is she interested??? This is VERY LONG but please help ill give points!!?
she is interested.......
Reply:Yeah girls definately love to be called chubby, you keep it up slick.
Reply:i dont think she likes you


she brings up her boyfriend so that you%26#039;ll get the hint that she already likes someone else


the reason she laughs is because she%26#039;s just trying to be polite and also she%26#039;s uncomfortable. and plus you said you are the owners son so she doesn%26#039;t want to get on your bad side





also a lot of girls get offended if you call them chubby even if they act like they%26#039;re not angry inside they%26#039;re hurt so like thats not a good flirting tactic
Reply:Well, I wouldn%26#039;t call her chubby anymore--especially if she%26#039;s self concious about it; it%26#039;s just plain--not funny. This is a bit hard to answer since I%26#039;m in America and I don%26#039;t know the Korean culture about personal space and touch. But I would say that she is interested if she regularly makes physical contact with you when it%26#039;s not necessary. While some people are %26quot;touchy%26quot; in a friendly manner, it%26#039;s often seen as rude behavior--impeding on others%26#039; personal space. If she weren%26#039;t interested she would say %26quot;no, I have a bf%26quot; instead of %26quot;what about my bf?%26quot; but it sounds as if she%26#039;s getting herself into a situation that is conflicting and she doesn%26#039;t know what to do about it.





Just be the big guy and say, %26quot;I like you and I%26#039;d like to get to know you better, lets have lunch, dinner, coffee, etc.%26quot; if she says, %26quot;no, I have a bf%26quot; then you know she%26#039;s serious about her beau. The worst she can say is %26quot;no%26quot;--then it%26#039;s over and you can stop stressing about whether or not she is interested in you.





Good luck.
Reply:well maybe is just being nice, i guess she saw your attitude with her close brother, cousin or boyfriend which she misses a lot...if you want you can talk to her i guess there is nothing wrong about being true to yourself ....it is a way things would be clear to both of you since she had a boyfriend.


nwei, gudlak.
Reply:Dude please stop teasing her that aint good, to be honest same thing happened to me, but the kicker is he did all those things your doing it got him trouble though cause he went to far at work but what im trying to say is i didnt know he liked me,,,, you got to be bold and direct, she may suspect it but you never really siad it either,,,, got for it all you can get is a yes or no,,,, i say do it!!!!!
Reply:idk i just read the last line
Reply:I think she%26#039;s just nice, sorry.
Reply:first of all your the ******* owners son, of course she%26#039;s gotta be nice to you. 2nd she has a boyfriend, 3rd you only known her for a week, and finally she seems to want to be friends but she doesn%26#039;t want anything else. Most girls ***** about their guys, it%26#039;s what they do. Dude, way to fit chubby in their smoothly. I always say %26quot;hey fatty%26quot; then ask her to make the pillsbarry doughboy sound as you poke her.!!!!!! It totally gets em! if that doesn%26#039;t work ask if she%26#039;s a chipmonk or if when she%26#039;s due....chicks ******* love that!



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She feeling me or just being friendly?

1. I Called her cute couple of times, 1-2 times every couple of days.. to give her hints.


For example she would ask me what shoe looks better on me, and i would say everything looks good


on you, your too cute. Etc. She seems to shy away from these comments, looks away or ignored i said it,


but doesnt seem like a %26quot;get out of my face%26quot; look or anything.





2. I would joke around make fun of stuff shes self-concisous about herself, in a joking manner, but i dont


overdo it..





3. I would flirt by making stupid bets, saying if i sold this item today u gotta buy me a dinner, etc...


She would laff and say what about my bf? I say who cares?? she laffs (it shows i aint


scared, hopefully) Later that nite she sold the product i was suppose to sell (go figure) i asked her to


buy me dinner, she said haha i sold it though, and then i said then ill buy dinner,


she looked at me smiling and said ok haha..and said im a buy something expensive and laffed.

She feeling me or just being friendly?
She%26#039;s just being nice if she mentions her boyfriend.





If and when she%26#039;s ready to go out with just you she will let you know.





Just stay friends with her. She likes you now as friend but who knows what will happen next month.





You could ask her if she has a double so you can ask her out because you don%26#039;t want to make her boyfriend jealous.





Good luck.
Reply:Shes being nice with the possibility of being more later maybe after her dude goes into the military. It%26#039;s not the point of you being scared of her boyfriend the point is she told you she has one this means not right now the timing is not right. So just be there for her, keep doing what ya doin and have some patience.
Reply:definitely just being nice.
Reply:sounds like she%26#039;s just flirting



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